Retno Ladyta shares her story, “Exploring the Meaning of Ikhlas in Daily Life”
UIN Jakarta Library, News Online - Friday, July 19, 2024, Discussion Community UIN Jakarta held a book review talk show, entitled “Pastikan Ikhlasmu Itu Luas” by Retno Ladyta. The event was held on the 7th floor of the UIN Syarif Hidayatullah Jakarta Library building.
The event began at 08.00 WIB, Najwa as the Chairperson of the Committee who delivered a warm welcome to the participants. Najwa explained that the purpose of this event was to increase reading interest and build a productive discussion culture among students.
The author of the book, Retno Ladyta, explained the contents of her book which discusses the concept of sincerity. In her presentation session, Retno Ladyta explained that sincerity is the main key to achieving inner peace and success in various aspects of life. She also shared personal experiences and gave real examples of how sincerity can expand the heart and mind.
“Having wounds and trauma is a natural thing. Because, it cannot be denied that we as humans must coexist with pain, which may depart from the tangle in the family, in friendship, or in finding a life partner.” Retno said.
Retno Ladyta in her book, “Pastikan Ikhlasmu Itu Luas,” presents an inspiring and in-depth guide on how one can achieve inner peace through sincere ikhlas. This book does not only contain theory, but is also equipped with true stories, reflections, and practical steps that can be applied in everyday life.
Definition and Importance of “Ikhlas”
Retno opens her book by explaining what ikhlas is. Ikhlas, according to her, is a concept that is often misunderstood and considered easy, even though in practice it requires high effort and self-awareness. She emphasizes that ikhlas is the key to achieving true happiness and peace.
Why “Ikhlas”?
Retno Ladyta emphasized the importance of ikhlas as the foundation of inner peace. “It is not only about letting go of worldly desires or accepting fate gracefully, but also about changing our attitude and mindset towards life.” Retno discussed. Retno outlined how an attitude of sincerity can bring about a profound transformation in a person, making it the key to achieving true happiness.
Exploring the Depth of Ikhlas
“Fight Alone, Rise Alone, Get Sick Alone, Face Problems Alone,” said Retno. This phrase reflects the core message of the book “Make Sure Your Ikhlas is Wide”. It is an in-depth look at how ikhlas, in all its forms and challenges, can be the key to finding inner peace. Retno offers a fresh and practical perspective on how to overcome various difficulties in life with a broad and sincere attitude of ikhlas.
Furthermore, Retno Ladyta invites readers to explore the true meaning of ikhlas. “Berjuang Sendiri” describes the challenges that each individual faces in their lives. This book teaches that although we often have to face problems and difficulties personally, having a broad attitude of sincerity can provide strength and calmness in the midst of these struggles.
Rise Alone: 'Strength from Within'
Retno outlines how “Rise Alone” is part of the journey towards sincerity. In this book, readers are encouraged not to rely solely on others in the process of recovery and goal achievement. Through various exercises and reflections, Retno shows how an attitude of ikhlas helps us to rise from difficulties with strength from within ourselves.
Sickness Alone: 'Responding to Pain with Sincerity'
Retno invites readers to understand that every pain is part of the life process and can be an opportunity for personal growth. This book provides guidance on how to respond to pain with a sincere attitude, so that readers can find peace and strength even in difficult situations.
Face Your Own Problems: 'Facing Challenges with Sincerity'
Along the way, everyone faces challenges. Retno admits “that trying to be sincere is not an easy thing and is often filled with various obstacles”. “Face Your Own Problems” is an important part of the philosophy of ikhlas shared in this book. Retno teaches that facing problems with a sincere attitude does not mean avoiding responsibility or not caring. Instead, it is about facing every challenge with sincerity, accepting the situation, and finding solutions with a cool head and an open heart.
Retno does not avoid discussing the challenges faced in trying to be sincere. She honestly admits that the journey to ikhlas is not easy and is often full of obstacles. However, she also provides various strategies to overcome these obstacles, such as how to control the ego, overcome greed, and let go of grudges. With Retno's guidance, readers can learn to face and overcome these challenges wisely.
Ikhlas as the Key to Inner Peace
Retno emphasized the importance of ikhlas as the key to achieving inner peace. “that ikhlas is not just about letting go of worldly desires, but also a way to accept oneself and others with sincerity.” Retno said. She invites readers to see ikhlas as a process that requires constant awareness and effort. Retno believes that through consistent practice (as she explains), readers can change their mindset and behavior towards a more peaceful life.
"Pastikan Ikhlasmu Itu Luas" is a book that offers practical and inspiring ways to achieve inner peace through sincerity. By diving into the various aspects of struggling, rising, pain, and facing one's own problems, Retno Ladyta provides the tools and perspectives necessary to live life with deeper serenity and happiness. This book is a must-read for anyone who wants to change the way they look at life's challenges and find strength in the vastness of ikhlas. (Rizki Mulyarahman)